" I just can't continue to participate in the disassembly of all the work I've done for the past 28 years" You're a good man, and I expect you passed some of that quality into the sticks you made. Please continue if you can.
I hope you can put the coffee shop together. Not long ago, I visited the Portland, OR area. I was surprised to see that there was a chain of Espresso shacks along the highways. Drive thru coffee super-charging stations. There were also "food truck" stands all over. I read up some, and found that the city and area have very easy licensing laws, and reasonable utility contracts. Those have contributed to a vibrant food culture. There's a food making establishment for ever 1.5 blocks in Portland. I hope your locality can see the sense in easing your entry into the field.